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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]People need to stop dumping on OP as if security is not something to consider when marrying.

Most people doing the dumping are admittedly married to men who make more and provide a comfortable life.

So how are any of you better than OP? Because she articulated what some of you thought but would never utter aloud.

Nearly all of you would advise their own daughters to marry someone who can provide. Marry a person sounds cute but we all know that money problems are the #1 cause of divorce.

Get off your high horses and get a grip.

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OP isn't asking about financial security. She isn't questioning whether he's financially responsible/savvy or hard working. For all we know, he's all of those things. Maybe 90k at age 29 is great for his field. And he's made smart financial choices so far.

She's asking whether his income is high enough to provide her with a certain lifestyle. Whatever lifestyle she wants to live, it's her responsibility to provide for herself.

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