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[quote=Anonymous]Love my husband but I was happier and more 'at peace' being single. I married after 30 and was content and happy where i was. I enjoyed and still enjoy DH company but man, I LOVED my alone time, being able to come and go as I please without having to tell someone; being able to spend $250 on a pair of killer boots just because without anyone giving me the side-eye (i only bought stuff (and still do) i could afford so save the judgement). 
I love having someone to do stuff with, but to be honest, we are a bit too opposite in some ways. THings that made me love him to begin with are growing more annoying overtime. I want to move, he never does. I want to travel more, he doesn't. I want to have some alone time, he never does. I want to clean the house on a saturday morning, he does not. I want to keep a clean house clean for longer than 2 minutes, he doesn't care. 
I love that he is more laid back and easy going and he has made me a better person in some reguards, but i do feel like a little part of who I am died over the years. Compromise is great, but to think that over time that doesn't kill a bit of who you are is not true. [/quote]

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