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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Confusedchaos]Thank you guys for the advice. I can't put into words how much I needed to read this. It really helped me make a decision that is right for my son and myself. I do have friends, and family that can help me through this... But it will be hell to leave him, I am leaving him asap but the only problem is, do I keep his secret? [b]He says he will "kill himself" if I leave him[/b]. He also says that [b]I can't tell anyone about his secret. [/b]He is more worried about the secret getting out instead of losing us. I am worried if I leave, [b]he will get crazy and harass me .[/b] i just am a little scared to leave. But I am going to leave because with the fighting and the confusing me by manipulating me into thinking it is my fault is confusing and physically making me sick. I do have a best friend who is willing to help me in any way and that includes help me get an apartment. Only problem is, [b]when I do try to leave, he hides my keys, and blocks the doorway and says I can't take our son.[/b] and then if I say "i will tell everyone about your secret" he says all I do is threaten him and that [b]I am not allowed to go anywhere because I am not thinking clearly.[/b][/quote]

You've listed MANY classic behaviors of an abuser. I'd plan to go without any warning. You don't announce it. You simply wait for him to leave the apartment, and then go. If not, get a family member or friend to come over and leave with you.

You need real help. Contact the National Domestic Abuse Hotline. Website and info here:
http://www.thehotline.org

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