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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]DH mentioned that he needed some paperwork for his work about a week and half or two ago.  I was in the middle of something and said "no problem - just remind me".

He never mentioned it again and I admit I flat forgot about it (I work full time and am 100% in charge of everything... house, lawn, kids, appointments, groceries, dishes,cooking, garbage, etc.  You name it, I handle it) so it's not like I don't have 1,000,000 other things on my plate.  DH's responsibilities are work and playing with the kids whenever he's around.

Anyway, I got a text today (which at work):  "Need you to get that paperwork today.  Boss is asking for it".

I was livid - seriously... not only does he expect me to do everything, he TELLS me to do things now?

I've had time to calm down, and just want a reality check.  Would that text piss you off?

(and yes, things have to change - I've been taking steps to get him and the kids to help more because it's just not a fair distribution)[/quote]

Seems you asked him to remind you. There is your reminder. Why expect something to change if you don't do something about it? You are mad at your living situation and your current roles. You are using this as an excuse to release built up anger.

Had you initially replied, "I'm too busy, the paper you need are in the drawer under the computer. I really need you to handle that on your own.", then it's on him.[/quote]

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