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[quote=Anonymous]OP, I think your anger is not over the text itself, but the expectation that you will do everything and that he's not even appreciative. this is not a recipe for success. why are you taking it all on? I never took it all on and yet things were still imbalanced, with me taking on all the paperwork for insurance, finances, kids, medical, travel, day to day logistics payroll for the nanny etc because DH was 'so bad' at it. Well, that was convenient for him. Finally I just stopped doing a lot of it, said he had to do it, did not do it. When he forgot to get paperwork done I did not bail him out. When he could not figure something out, I did not bail him out. I still do more, but he has risen to the occasion and I no longer feel stressed and resentful. Also, he does a ton with the kids. [/quote]
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