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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]A tangent I know but I ponder this for my DS who is 1/4 black but looks really white.  I'm 1/2 black and checked both black and white if I could check multiple boxes or just black if I could only check one.  I don't look white and have felt some degree of racism in my life so I felt okay doing that.  I guess it's up to my son but I hope he checks white or maybe other.  I would feel disappointed if he checked black for an admissions boost.  One drop rule and all that notwithstanding, AA is not meant for him.[/quote]

you sound jealous of your son's phenotype. do you wish you were his shade? [/quote]

Huh?  It's just a different situation for him.  In some ways my situation is more comfortable because I look mixed and am mixed and so there's no weird feeling that part of my heritage is invisible.  Anyway, do you want my kid to take an AA spot?  Would that make you feel better?  Whatever lady.[/quote]

NP --Does your son live as AA, white, or mixed? Most mixed kids I meet with AA or mixed moms identify as AA or mixed regardless of their phenotype. When the mom is non-AA, that's when I see the kids identify more as white (or Asian or Latino) like mom if they can pass rather than dad's race. Obviously, this is just kids I've met and I'm sure there is variation, but I grew up in a military family with lots of intermarriage and I also lived in three very diverse cities with lots of intermarriage.[/quote]

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