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[quote=Anonymous]I'm in an open marriage. Have been for 16 years. The reality is that anyone can leave anyone else at any time. Marriage is no guarantee. Sexual exclusivity is no guarantee. Having children together is no guarantee. Once you get past that fear, you realize that no one can break up a relationship except the two people in it. Sex isn't what keeps us together, at least not exclusively. It's one of many things, like choosing to have a child together, shared goals, finances, interests, laughing together, mutual respect. We are a team. An open marriage has afforded us a lot of fun excitement in the bedroom, both together and separately. We've closed up when I was pregnant for health reasons -- i.e. not worth the risk of STIs to the fetus. He has also stayed monogamous with me during the post-partum period when physically, things have been difficult. That's that mutual respect. Hoping to have my mojo back soon and open things up again. [/quote]
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