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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Google it and you will find 92 percent of open marriages end in divorce. If you are not giving him sex he will develop an emotional attachment to one of the women that do.[/quote]

True 92% get divorced.

But HE will not develop an emotional attachment.

What normally happens (of course there are outliers) is that men are looking for quantity, so they find a woman and see her 1-2 times a week, minimum. It take's time and energy away from the family. The woman gets an attachment, it gets messy at about the 8-12 month mark and there is a breakup. Then the man has to look again, rinse repeat and he gets sick of the hunt and the breakup and eventually becomes less connected to his family/children.

The woman really is not looking for any more sex so she does not look for anything, eventually something comes along and they see each other once a month at the most. Mostly it is somebody that floats in and out of the area so as little as 4 times a year, a perpetual bachelor with commitment issues... perfect. This fulfills her needs of a "companion" with little needs and does not pull her away from her family (really I mean her kids).

The man gets annoyed and jealous and things go badly quickly at around year 3... because men who ask for open marriages are never happy in the end, because the problem is not their marriage, the problem is them. [/quote]

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