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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]That is very 2015 thinking. Psychologist have done much research since.

Marriages are an agreement between 2 adult parties unless it is an arranged marriage or if one is being held hostage.

Affairs are not and agreement between 2 people.

It is not reasonable to blame somebody for their spouses actions and is a kin to saying: "I wouldn't hit her if she wasn't such a B*tch" or "I drink because he is such a jerk".

People need to take responsibility for their own actions. If the marriage sucks end it. But... but... but... I don't want to, plain and simple. For the kids, for the money, for selfishness. It's a choice to stay married. It's a breach of an agreement to have an affair.  [/quote]

Please site work, thx.

Also, Einstein, I think she and others are suggesting that there's a primary breach before the affair happens.  [/quote]

Hey Einstein, the idea that a spouse needs to be perfect not to be cheated on is soooo 2015. She is a talking head not a researcher. Do you own Pubmed search. I have posted the research on this site 100 times.

"primary breach"... OMFG, grow up. [/quote]

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