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Reply to ""the victim of the affair is not always the victim of the marriage""
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[quote=Anonymous]I doubt people cheated on are really "blissfully unaware" that their spouse cheated. Unaware, but puzzled and being gas lit is more likely. Cheating takes effort and requires evasions and lies to cover up. A friend's dad pretended to sponsor a child in a developing country to cover up his assignations at a no tell motel. My dad had "business lunches" at a hotel. My ex-husband was on the phone in his study for hours because he was doing consulting work for the other woman. These lies accounted for time and money, but not the emotional distance or other intangibles. [/quote]
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