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[b]What he needs is a father.[/b] Obviously. And this so-called "supportive" mother is allowing this kid - who clearly has some emotional issues to deal with - to act out in completely inappropriate ways. [b]Yes, getting involved in a homosexual lifestyle will mess up his life.[/b] He needs desperately needs some serious guidance. Sorry you can't see that.[/quote]

Do you have any suggestions about where OP can obtain a father for her son?

Also, what is "a homosexual lifestyle"?[/quote]

Well for starters I hope op has some stable, honorable male role models in her son's life. And I would hope that they have been very active and involved through out these 16 years. I cannot imagine that they would be ok with this. It's not the same thing as a father, of course, but in op's sad situation with her husband (?) walking out on her at 7 months pregnant, I hope she had the foresight to create a permanent male father figure in his life. That could have prevented what appears to be a search for validation from a man in an inappropriate, sexual way.

And as to your second question, you know exactly what a gay lifestyle is. It is a very sad and tragic choice that - as in this situation- is usually the result of deep seated pain. [/quote]

Well, I'll tell you my neighbors' gay lifestyle. One of them gets up in the morning and goes to work. The other one stays home, takes care of the house and yard, volunteers with several community organizations, and watches her small grandchildren. In the evening, the one who goes to work comes home, and they eat dinner together. On weekends, they go kayaking, visit craft fairs, have family over... Is that what you're referring to with "a gay lifestyle"? [/quote]

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