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[quote=Anonymous]I would feel violated too. Personally, I would delete & block SIL, plus every single person connected to her, and I'd PM the organizers of the groups explaining that your SIL has not had relevant experiences and has no business joining but has joined only to embarrass and harass you online, and asking them to remove & block her from the group.

Don't make anything you're doing a secret, expect that people will tell her. Who cares about discord in DH's family. It was the SIL who caused the discord, by snooping around in your life and trying to read your diary in a sense. That's a pretty sick person. Try to ignore her. DH is another issue altogether. If he doesn't support you, tell him you want to do marriage counseling.

And then comment all you want in the groups. It's important that you have support.

If the groups wouldn't kick her out, I'd probably post something on her public wall: "SIL, I see that you joined the traumatic birth experiences group a few days after I did. I wasn't aware that you had any traumatic birth experiences. It certainly would have helped me a lot when I was struggling with the fallout of mine to hear that you went through it too. And of course I would have been happy to support you! It's great that you're reaching out online to get support though. Which birth was it?"

I absolutely would not be starting any anonymous accounts just because of one girl.[/quote]

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