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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I would think that, at those ages, they can and should figure this out for themselves without your intervention.[/quote] This. They are 20, 18, and 16. They are old enough to solve this problem for themselves. Plus if you intervene, then they will be mad at you, too. Stay out of it.[/quote] Oh please - if a parent does not intervene, the 16 yr old will be dominated by the other two. Or, 2 of them will gang up on the 3rd. I think each should have to ask another's permission before borrowing. There are natural consequences to not being generous and hopefully they'll figure this out fast. My only exception to this advice would be if the youngest is still getting hand me downs instead of her own wardrobe - if that is the case, then no one would want to borrow her clothes so no incentive to grant her permission to borrow, which would be unfair. [/quote]
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