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[quote=Anonymous]This is a marriage-breaker, right here. Talk about what it would really mean to live that close to family. If you don't want all that comes with it, like drop-ins and frequent contact, you need to say so. It will be extremely difficult to have any kind of boundaries with that kind of proximity and established dynamic. If he's not willing to have some space with you, then consider where you rank in his life. It sounds like he wants to have his cake and eat it too--absorbing you into his family life and dynamic, without considering that the two of you might be also creating something new together and need some space for that.[/quote]
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