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If I think about the 2-3 women in my past who still loom large in my romantic memory, it's the ones that got away, the ones that I couldn't get to fully commit to me and appreciate what I had to offer.  I'm sure I idealized them in my head, making them seem perfectly suited for me.   The other "mortal" women from past relationships seem "conquered" for lack of a better term, with no lingering longing.   College girl will probably always be an unrealistically idealized person to OP and may always occupy some special place in the heart because of it.  Reaching out unsuccessfully will probably put her yet higher on some unreachable, unobtainable pedestal, while reaching out successfully will just put her into the conquered, mortal category, with all of it's realism and visible faults.  It won't be what you imagined it would be - at least not for long.  Either way, no good will come of it.   A wise friend once told me, "If you find yourself kissing a Goddess, she probably isn't one."  Generally speaking, begging is a turnoff, unless the girl has her own issues.   Man up.

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But she did commit to me.  We told each other everything, and I feel I got to know her better than anyone else had.  Sex was the final thing.  It's not like there are other girls I've liked but who I couldn't sleep with (obviously) but I don't really think about them like that. [/quote]

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