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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I am a 42yo recently divorced, professional woman. I feel like I'd like to start dating but am self-conscious about my weight and feel maybe I shouldn't bother dating until I've lost 40 pounds. This is an issue I've struggled with my whole life. Yes, some might say, just lose the weight, but I'm finding it harder than that. On the one hand I don't want to sell myself short, i.e. I am above average pretty, smart and have my act together, not to mention healthy sex drive with good skills in the bedroom. And maybe I am selling 40+ yr old men short by assuming that they will automatically be turned off by an overweight woman... Curious about perspectives for a reality check... Thanks[/quote] If you want to lose weight, lose weight. But definitely don't put your life on hold until you've done it. There may be some men who care about the extra weight, but I'm guessing you'd rather be with one who doesn't. [/quote]
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