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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Pp here. I thought of a great response that I would have said when it happened:

"Yeah, I'm single because I'm the one with standards."[/quote]
No. I great response would be something like this, but it must be done when the comments are made.

Your comments hurt me and I am very upset. I would like to have a good relationship with you and my sister, but comments like these make me want to stop all contact with both of you. If you can refrain from making those type of personal comments about me, I would like to forgive, forget and move on. We have many years to go in this relationship.

Also, this is about your family, not the bil. Stop displacing your anger.
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OP again . You are  right that this isn't  just a BIL problem, but a family problem , the mean girl behavior  as pp called it,  that has gone on too long. I'm trying to correct that, and hopefully, I'll be able to get into therapy soon to help with all of this, for now I'm just doing the best I can .

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