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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Then they suck.  You don't want them.  And you don't want to waste even 15 minutes on them, or lure them, or con them into thinking they want you for even 1 or 2 or 3 dates.  They are flawed and disgusting and horrid human beings who should not be around your beautiful child.  How do you not see this? [/quote]

I'm not trying to con anyone, I just want to be giving a fair chance. Shit, I wish I weren't divorced so I wouldn't have to deal with this crap, but life didn't work out that way.[/quote]

Does he know youre divorced? Start there.

But if you're so concerned about "giving me a fair chance" you need to change that to "us"...as in you and your kid. Package deal, non negotiatable. It's a steeper hill, but that's how it is. The right guy will not only accept that, but embrace it.[/quote]

Agree with this PP. I'm divorced, and part of that is because I DON'T want kids. I know this is a big issue for some people so I make it known to them on the first or second date. It's only fair. You will (and already do) look like a complete weirdo for it being totally upfront about your kid. [/quote]

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