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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I'm sure this has been discussed before:

The part I struggle with is connection with one's kids and less about the chores, given I am lazy anyway :)

How does one feel less guilty about the lack of time spent with one's kid? I hear about all kinds of studies such as: quality time matters more than quantity, but the small voice in my head says that because I was with my child for a little more time I knew more about my 4 year old's insecurities, her joys, fears, happiness, etc. I felt present in her life. My previous job allowed me to work from home in the evenings (after 6 hours in the office), giving me a few hours during the day with my kid. I know most parents don't have this opportunity at all.

Now, I will begin a non-flexible 8:00-6:00 job, with longer hours based on project deadlines. I feel terribly guilty and wish I had more flexible job options available. Please tell me how you are able to connect meaningfully with your kid after being away the whole day![/quote]

I feel zero guilt. My job provides the health insurance for our family. The nanny sends me a pic or two most days, and lets whoever gets home first know about any big moments/insights discovered.  Most nights DH and I are home in time for baths/bedtime and we catch up then.[/quote]

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