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[quote=Anonymous]I personally would never sign a prenup, but the child rearing stuff would really make me walk away without having a conversation.

Your fiancee allowed his parents to send you a legal document outlining major decisions that you will make as parents and he did not discuss these things with you in advance. That is a VERY big red flag for the future. He has just proven that

1) He is fine with his parents communicating desires about your children and their rearing directly to you without having to be in the conversation
2) He apparently will agree with them in these scenarios
3) He will be angry with you for questioning 'the family'

Money schmoney, you need to address that, because THAT will be a WAY bigger problem when actual children are in the picture. I cannot comprehend DH's parents instructing me how to raise our children, let alone him letting that happen and in fact becoming mad at me if I push back. These decisions should be between the two of you, mommy and daddy need to back off. [/quote]

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