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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Re-evaluate what you want from this relationship. You will most likely never be close. That's ok. But these things have much less weight behind them if you aren't trying to please her so much. Stop apologizing. It makes her think she was right to ding you for something that is normal. So if you find yourself writing "sorry we had rotavirus" edit that to just say "we had rotavirus". Keep you responses cool and calm. Do not defend against every crazy "bad thing you've done" claim she throws out there, that gives them legitimacy. Be ready for the fact that she will not like any of this and because of it, she might try to end the relationship. This might be bordering on emotional abuse, not just annoying behavior. I'd do some reading so you're aware of the signs etc.[/quote] Solid advice. Thank you![/quote]
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