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[quote=Anonymous]Guy here.  Yes, this coworker is interested in you.

You need to tell him again that you don't mind having this "friendly" relationship with him as long as his fiancee/wife is aware and on-board with the level of communication.  Tell him that you'll be limited your responses and discussions with him to some limit (once/day maybe?) excepting work issues until you hear from his fiancee that she is aware of your friendship and has no issue with it.  Tell him to send her cell number to you after he's had that discussion with her and you will text her directly to make sure.  Then go through with it.  Work email/texts only.  Once/day chat with him.  Keep it short.

As for the communication.  If he texts you, you don't answer and the phone rings, then dismiss the call and send him a text "Busy now.  Will contact you tomorrow."  Then if he contacts you again, block his number until the next day.

Really, you have to hit him over the head with the fact that until you know that his wife is on-board with the friendship, you have to set a boundary and stick to it.  He obviously will not.[/quote]

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