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[quote=Anonymous]My FIL was a terrible father, although not physically abusive, but verbally. He is a crotchety old man now. He barely checked in with either of his children from the time they were 18 (when their mom divorced him) up to the time when he suddenly needed help. So now my husband sees him, helps him out, and I allow him to visit us and see the kids occasionally. But he is NEVER alone with them. One time we had to cut a visit short because he started yelling and cursing (at my husband) and it scared the crap out of my son (and me!). SO, my attitude it that we do not owe him anything. He is welcome if he can keep his temper under control, but he is not going to be with the kids alone, and if he acts up, he leaves. [/quote]
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