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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I'm with OP, that if this was one of the first times this happened, I'd be pissed.  OP, what DCUM is trying to say is that even though your DH is being a dick, we just develop coping mechanisms, because he's not going to stop being a dick.  We know what our options are now (takeout and bottle of wine), so when DH hits our boundary of not being home by 7pm or something (you set the line and you can tell him or not), we just go with plan B.

I agree that if you have kids, and he often does something with bedtime, this is worse.

I used to wait for DH to come home to start dinner.  He'd wind up home an hour later than he told me he was leaving work.  I was the OP of another thread.  So, after awhile, I just started making dinner when I was hungry and he could reheat it.  When he started wasting $29/lb filets, I stopped buying them for him and just bought them for me.  He was on his own.

Also, if you don't have kids yet, and he's constantly a dick, I am totally a fan of waiting, not having them, or getting a divorce.  I have one kid, and I am now getting a divorce.[/quote]

No, what many of us are trying to say is that going to happy hour is not a dick move.  It's totally fine unless there were some other plans made.

But who wants to take relationship advice from us happily married people, take it instead from the ones getting divorced....[/quote]

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