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[quote=Anonymous]^^^ this would be a pretty major issue for me, OP. My DH is resistant to the idea in a visceral way, which I was willing to extend some sympathy on. He's not familiar with the procedure, or with the alternatives for me. And, TBF, I have had two easy pregnancies and deliveries, I have a pill that works for me, and I have no other issues other than, like a PP, I'd like to be done taking the pill at some point. We tabled the discussion because we may yet have a third, and because it caused a pretty significant rift between us, even just discussing in the abstract. But, I don't have much doubt that at the end of the day, he will come around to a point where we can at least weigh the options and decide together. If he was reacting like your DH, and I had your medical history/issues, I would have a really big problem with it.

One more anecdote, just for fun. A friend's DH got snipped and mentioned it at a party to another man (maybe TMI, but leaving that aside). The man said, in front of my friend, something to the effect of, well what if you want more children later? Friend's DH just stared at the guy like he had two heads and was like, my WIFE and I decided we don't want any more children and I don't plan to have a different wife.[/quote]

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