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[quote=Anonymous] This cannot go on,  dad will retire and his hard-working brother will be sure to shut off the money valve  when he takes over the business.   Sitting home for year is a huge major red flag;  when I was in my 20s I couldn't possibly do it I didn't know any else who could.  You don't mention moodiness or depression so this may very well be just plain old laziness and for that there is no cure. 
Ultimatums usually don't work well but you might try saying that you did not want to marry into the idle rich so he will need to have a plan and a job within the next six weeks otherwise you are going to evaluate the situation.

I dated the daughter of a dear family friend and our lives were completely intertwined, everyone was invested in our relationship but really we were just 21 year-olds who liked to have sex and fight with each other;  when it ended there was a tiny bit of awkwardness at first but eventually everyone recovered and realized that  although we broke up there was no need to destroy friendships.

You're in a tough spot but you seem like a good person; this will be hard for you but just because you asked means you probably know the answer.

Try not to dump him before a major holiday, let everyone get used to you to being apart before the feast of the seven fishes. [/quote]

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