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[quote=Anonymous]He treats me like an interesting human being and wants to talk with me about my interests, his interests, the world in general. He is willing to show his emotions in front of me. He respects my choices and actively backs them up without carping or making it all about him, and he encourages me to try new things. He works with me to make those new things possible, if it means changing a schedule around so he can drive our DC places or so he can take over something I might need him to do.

In short, he treats me in ways that show he's interested in me as a whole person. That seems to be the antithesis of the DCUM "I married a vagina and not a person" attitude in some posts above and in many a post I've seen on DCUM over the years. Some men who post here seem to think that sex is always priority number one and the fundamental reason to marry; I wonder if they would ever have married if they didn't see it as a contract for guaranteed sex, to be broken if the sex isn't forthcoming on demand?....And yeah, before the "you must be in a sexless marriage!" posts start, our sex life is fine. I just find it amazing that so many men who post here seem to have little real interest in their wives as people, friends, companions who share their interests--only as sex partners. I wish their wives well if they happen to get sick or injured or depressed and it affects their sex drives. Those men aren't going to take care of them then, I guess.[/quote]

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