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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]What is making you feel this way?[/quote]

1.  He has many gay friends.
2.  He has little interest in sex, he's  not enthusiastic about it, I am always prompting him during as well as initiating sex.
3.  He sometimes has trouble keeping an erection.
4.  He doesn't have the typical bachelor pad. It's super clean, decorated very nicely. He decorates seasonally.
5.  He is a great cook.
6.  He is very concerned about his appearance.
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#1 doesn't mean shit.
#2 makes me wonder about you as in why did you chose him for a boyfriend.
#3 doesn't mean shit
#4 doesn't mean shit
#5 doesn't mean shit
#6 doesn't mean shit.

So ultimately the only question to be answered is why are you with this guy?[/quote]

Thou doth protest too much. Most of things are characteristics disproportionately found in gay men. Especially the decorating seasonally thing. Straight men don't do that -- they have women in their lives to do it for them.[/quote]

Now DH's apartment when we met was insane clean.  He vacuumed every day but his decorating sucked.  #2 and #3 were the polar opposites of your situation.  I would have a serious conversation with him about his sexuality.[/quote]

#1 Ok he has a lot of gay friends. Could just mean he has a lot of gay friends.
#2 Some people just aren't interested in sex. Some people naturally have a low sex drive.
#3 My answers to #2 work here as well. Also, maybe he's just not into [b]YOU[/b]
#4 My dad is super clean. Cleans the house, washes the dishes, even does my mother's laundry. Why? Not because he's gay, but mostly because he just likes being clean and my mom just sucks at cleaning.
#5 So straight men can't be great cooks? Someone better tell Gordan Ramsey, Bobby Flay, and all the other great male chefs out there. Oh and again, my dad is a great cook and he's...STRAIGHT
#6 I don't understand why men can't be concern with their appearance. Some people just take pride in their appearance. Me, I don't care. I'll wear blue shoes with black pants and a red shirt and let my hair grow into a crazy afro. My dad and brother however will make sure their shoes match their outfits and that they always have fresh cuts

Just have a conversation with the dude! It could be very well that he just has a low sex drive. If you're not sexually compatible then why stay in the relationship? You're obviously unhappy, so just end it now[/quote]

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