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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I very firmly did not want kids. My husband said he loved me and wanted to marry me, but needed to become a father. I agreed to one. We wound up with two (adopting the second in an emergency situation).

I agreed to the one on the condition that HE would be the main parent, and that we would have a nanny. He agreed to those things. I don't bring it up, but I absolutely had kids to keep him. [/quote]

Are you a really disconnected mother? Do you even enjoy your children?[/quote]

I work full time.  I know where the oldest goes to school but don't remember where her classroom is. I know her best friend's name. But in general DH handles the details, just like the main parent always does.  I enjoy them sometimes.  Generally when we're out rather than at home.[/quote]

This might be one of the saddest posts I've ever seen posted on DCUM. My heart breaks for your DD. [/quote]

Eh, save your energy.  Both kids are very happy and loved.  You're just used to mothers being the main parent, and in our family it's the father. [/quote]

This has nothing to do with which parent is the main parent. My DH would never say he enjoys our kids sometimes and moreso when we are out. MY best friend's DH is their main parent and she would never say those things either. [/quote]

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