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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Keep in mind that when your husband publicly undermines you, it does not make YOU look bad. It makes HIM look bad. Everyone looks at HIM and thinks "Oh my god, what a douche to not stick up for and support his wife!" [/quote] +1 Agree. Also agree on the wash and fold idea. You don't need to appease everyone, OP. You are working very hard - too hard. Can you cut your hours? If not, I would outsource everything. That maid sounds like she is more work than she is worth. The husband definitely is, but conquer one thing at a time. Simplify your meals. Get groceries delivered. Your husband's attitude may have to do with how he was raised. I have seen families where the mother was not respected (the father didn't respect himself), so it carries ramifications for the family dynamics. I am sorry you are going through this. You make the money, you put your foot down, OP.[/quote]
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