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[quote=Anonymous]Agree with pp that you need to approach this calmly. There is a really big problem here. It needs to be recognized and fixed. You don't want him to do something differently because you're crying and upset. You want him to see that his way of dealing with his family is out of whack and comes from a place of total dysfunction. I don't think you alone can get him to see that. Channel your anger into finding a really good therapist to help you. I'm almost reminded of people being told to "do the 180" when they discover a spouse's infidelity. Maybe someone has a link to it. Basically instead of chasing him, you calmly disengage. I have a gut feeling this would be a better approach for you. [/quote]
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