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[quote=Anonymous]OP, my wedding was the last time I saw my abusive mom and I wish I had gone no-contact earlier. We had a small wedding (25 guests), and she was a mess at the reception because she was not the center of attention. She swore up and down that she was going to be on her best behavior but I should have known better. I did not want to involve her in helping (my best girl friends helped me get ready),but she bullied her way into picking up the cupcakes and threw a temper tantrum about the lack of street parking (we paid for garage parking for our guests a block from the restaurant). It will be two years this summer since going no contact and it has made my life so much calmer. I didn't really deal with my childhood issues until I was able to get some distance and begin healing. I've mourned the loving, caring mother I wish I had, and put the time in in therapy to make sure I don't become my mother.[/quote]
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