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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Not sure why some people are being rude to OP. 
OP, tell her the truth of what was said and let her know you didn't want to have dinner with him without her there, but don't offer her your interpretation. [/quote]

Because they hate/envy attractive women.[/quote]

Yep, this is exactly right, and I say that as another one who is not a novice at being hit on. And yes, it is a bit upsetting that this happens all the time in professional environments. Most of the men are basically well meaning but clueless and by this point (mid 40s) I've learned how to get out of the situation asap without upsetting the guy's ego. For a woman, it's basically a business skill.  What is very sad is that I also have to make doubly sure that my hotel room door is locked and bolted whenever I travel, since I have had creepy men follow me to my room and try to enter it on multiple occasions. And no, I am not bragging.

But I digress...

OP, tell the minimum you feel you need to tell to make sure it doesn't happen again or to clear your conscience. If I were your friend, I'd want to know. It would hurt, but not knowing would be worse.

Finally, I'm sorry about your husband. :([/quote]

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