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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Being a parent is the hardest job you'll ever do, and it lasts a lifetime. I wish people here were more forgiving toward other humans, especially their parents.[/quote]

What sanctimonious nonsense. People who abuse their children should not be allowed to continue to abuse them when they are adults through "forgiveness". They are likely to abuse heir grandchildren too.

http://www.slate.com/articles/life/family/2013/02/abusive_parents_what_do_grown_children_owe_the_mothers_and_fathers_who_made.html[/quote]

Forgiveness has nothing to do with allowing someone to continue to abuse you. Forgiveness should be for YOU. So that YOU can let go of the anger and the resentment that obviously still controls your life.

Just because you forgive someone, doesn't even mean that you have to let them back into your life. It is simply saying that you are releasing the anger and resentment that you feel towards them. That you are ready to move on with your life, without all the baggage that comes from holding a grudge. Regardless of whether or not you are justified in your anger, let it go. Forgive so that you can move on. FOR YOU - not them.[/quote]

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