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[quote=Anonymous]I would try counseling. Perhaps having a third party will help you two to talk out your issues. If DH is providing childcare, involved with D.C.'S school, getting groceries, helping around the house, etc. he is doing a job (although I'm sure you would appreciate it more if it was a joint decision and not one he fell into). Does DH have hobbies? Is he trying to better himself? Perhaps he feels a bit lost or has some mild depression? I know I would be upset if DH was out of work for years and didn't make an attempt to find anything else. Maybe if you spoke with a therapist your DH would better understand your point of view (or care about it more) and get a much needed kick in the butt to get motivated. Also, have you discussed divorce with him? Have you discussed why you don't feel intimate towards him any longer? If he seems ambivalent to this conversation, I would say you deserve to find someone who cares more about you.[/quote]
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