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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]It is scary to be a boy today in college. My friend of mine is a nurse at a college health center. If a girl comes into her office and accuses a student of rape, authorities are called. If the young lady had any alcohol (even 1 beer), she is considered incompetent to make a decision about sex. Police called, the boy would get a record and be expelled. I do not condone rape AT ALL, but there are some girls who have misgivings the next morning and they can accuse. Previously, colleges have handled these cases themselves, but now the police are involved immediately. I don't know what the answer is, but what do you tell your boys? What is the girl's responsibility? [/quote]

I agree. My dh picked up my high school aged son from a female friend's house over break. He had gone there in the afternoon to hang out and there were about 10 kt)tids. The dad was there when my dh brought him, but when he picked him up two hours later, he wasn't. My ds said by then, when there were only two girls and two guys still there, the girl whose house it was invited them into her bedroom to show them something (can't remember what). My dh flipped out when he heard this. It would be so easy for the dad to come home and be pissed to find them in her bedroom. The girl might say it was the guys' idea.  Or  the girls could say something happened that didn't. I've heard it too many times that for any number of reasons, a girl says something happened that didn't to get out of trouble, or to get attention, or whatever. There are challenges, of course, parenting both boys and girls, but this is a big one for parents of boys.[/quote]

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