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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]For those who had a spouse who cheated and told the AP's spouse - what if I didn't right away and I feel like I should have?  Tell now, even though it's months later?[/quote]

Yes. I sent the email immediately but people have the right to know.

My email basically said.

You wife X is having and affair with my H Y. I am sorry if this comes as a surprise or if this is currently an arrangement that you know about. But, I thought it was best that everybody come clean. I wish you the best. [/quote]

Good for you. What happened?[/quote]

I divorced, they did not. But they were in the same social circle so the gossipy tarts she is "friends" with tried to tell me gory details of the whole mess and I cut them out of my life.

It's not pretty, she is bi-polar (I knew that), I hope she is getting the therapy she needs to be a good mom. Like I said, I knew her and she had been fired form many jobs and I know lots of bad stories about her as a mother, besides the ones she admitted to in the texts she sent my H. Like showing up wasted to a parent teach conference and missing college graduation.[/quote]

Did you know when you sent the email you'd divorce him? I think that makes a big difference. [/quote]

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