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Reply to "DH said I take, take, take and never give anything to the marriage..."
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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I disagree with the PP in terms of fighting over this. That will just feed his narrative of how oppressed and unloved he is. . Instead, i would try to put away the hurt (hard, I know) and basically say, wow, I had no idea you felt this deeply unhappy with our marriage. This is serious. Will you come to counseling with me? and then go, and listen. You'll have your turn to say things from your point of view. See how he reacts. At the same time, keep your eyes and ears open. Is he on his phone more/more secretive? staying out longer? If this is out of the blue, and basically your marriage has been good (and you sensitive to how he is feeling and not oblivious) then it sounds like mid life crisis/possible affair (either having one, or really attracted, or somewhere between). [/quote] +1 Pointing out the truth will only pit him against you, make him dig in his heels and see you as the bad person.[/quote]
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