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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]It's all luck. What you say is her ruining relationships with 'good guys' could be her not loving those guys. No one knows what is going on in a relationship other than the people in it.

As I've gotten older I've become more and more convinced that its mostly luck whether or not you meet 'your person.' As long as friend a is getting out there and giving people a shot then she's living her life and you shouldn't think less or more of her. Sounds like friend b got REALLY lucky, which is great for her. But it doesn't make her better or worse than friend a. [/quote]

+1 to this, with another possible explanation:

Friend A is more outgoing. She is willing to give more guys a shot, even when the relationship doesn't have much of a chance of being serious. So that means she's likely to get involved with more guys, which means more relationships won't work out. Friend B is reserved, which means she's only going to date a guy if she thinks that there is a good chance of the relationship leading to marriage.

I was more like Friend A (and am married now, to a man who adores me, whom I adore - who also had a similar past). And I sure as hell hope that my friends weren't posting on message boards wondering what was wrong with me. We all have different ways of experiencing the world - stop judging your friend for being curvy and willing to date guys who aren't already ring shopping.[/quote]

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