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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My husband has always been a bit selfish and I knew that but it’s gotten worse as he’s gotten older.  He’s just not resilient at all, he gets all old mannish about things like technology and is helpless sometimes.  He then criticizes me constantly and never has a kind word for me maybe once in a while he will compliment something I cooked.  But never my appearance.  I think he truly believes if he does I will “let myself go”. Yeah.  I have kept separate finances to protect an inheritance of mine because some day I may just be done.  We have a school age child and mostly get along fine on the surface.  It’s not bad enough to leave, it seems.  I dunno. I used to feel he was always on my side but I’m not sure now. [/quote]

This post sounds like you are evaluating the relationship against perfect with little communication about expectations and needs.  Adding in the separate finance reasoning it doesn’t sound like your relationship is a relationship.  You need to find a good IC, then MC if you want a better marriage.

FYI, If you didn’t have a prenup it is all 50/50 in divorce, unless the inheritance was given in some form of trust, but in that case you wouldn’t need separate finances.[/quote]

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