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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]This does not sound like a work vs not work thing. It sounds like you are a 'sad sack'. Are you? Are you sad? Are you struggling with your new life? I think you are, because if you are not, the comment would not bother you. My mother use to say, if somebody calls you a duck do you think "am i a duck" no... because you know you are not. If somebody says "you're fat, or ugly, or stupid" and you get upset, it's because you think it about yourself. [/quote] Wow, I just said something similar to my teenagers. If you know a description doesn't fit you, you think something is wrong with the other person's perception. But you are not sure, that's when start perservating.[/quote] So by this “logic,” what you two are saying is that no strong, beautiful Black woman should ever feel insulted if someone screams the N-word at her. Because after all, that word can only hurt her if that’s the way she feels about herself? No gay couple should be hurt if someone screeches the “f-word” at them? They would only feel insulted or attacked if they secretly loathe themselves or each other for being gay? That’s your logic? Really? [/quote] If you cannot distinguish hate speech from any other type of speech, I'm sorry, I cannot help you. It must be difficult to live in tje world with such poor logic and nuance.[/quote] If you cannot distinguish rude disgusting insults with constructive criticism/feedback, I’m sorry, I cannot help you. It must be difficult to live in the world with such poor logic and nuance. [/quote]
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