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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]How do you not understand that a call or a text is allowing the person to decide if they want to engage with you or not..... My husband has never declined a text or a call from me and our cars have to capability to answer phones remotely or to talk to text.....
My issue with tracking is you're doing it without their knowledge.... If you said I'm going to track you tonight to see when you're going to be home and he is like okay. Sounds good then. Yeah there's nothing wrong with that but you're just looking up there whereabouts to be nosy which is wrong on so many levels. Can I read my husband's email because I have the password. Yes I can but I never would unless I thought that he was cheating or something was going on. [b]The fact that you think there is no problem with violating privacy is crazy to me[/b] and not a relationship I would ever want to be in.... inFact I would feel quite suffocated[/quote]

DP. You do know how the iPhone family sharing app works, right? No one is “violating” anyone’s privacy. When you turn on the location sharing feature on your iPhone, you are giving your family express permission to see your location. And some of us do this because we *want* our family to know where we are (I know. I know. Crazy concept to some of you).  DH and I aren’t using this feature because we want to be “nosy”. We are using it because Larla and Larlo are starving, one of us is on dinner duty, and if we don’t get some semblance of a hot dinner on the table stat, someone is going to die… but swim practice went late. I’m carrying 2 swim bags. 4 fins. 20 pairs of goggles. And a partridge in a pear tree. And I don’t feel like answering my effing phone when DH calls to ask me where I am. 
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There are like a million other ways to know when your spouse will be home and when to start dinner without tracking them[/quote]

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But that’s the easiest way…. For us. This is a reason that Apple introduced the feature and allows you to individually share it with whomever you’d like and turn it off instantaneously when you wish.

I can call my husband every day to ask him when he’s coming home, and he could say he’s leaving in 10 minutes, but then get caught up and not leave for another 20 minutes or so; or right before I boil the noodles  I could glance at my phone to see if he’s 30 minutes away or 5 minutes away.

I do this with my 16yo daughter as well. She has practice that ends at 6:45 instead of bugging her and asking her every 5 min when she’s gotten on the road, I check her location. I can tell if she’s on the lacrosse field, in the school parking lot or driving down the road. [/quote]

For teen drivers- it’s a safety and piece of mind thing.  I also plan dinner —things that don’t work well warmed up later like pasta and noodles, etc.

And my ex cheated and kept his locator on.  I was checking to see if he left the office for dinner and such- and he was always running late on Fridays. I’m the one who one time saw his phone showing all the way in MD and we live in VA and then it glitched back to his office.  It wasn’t a glitch. He hacked it.[/quote]

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