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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]These threads. Another way to try to make a new mom feel like crap about herself.

3 sections, one emergent after developing HELLP (which sent my baby into huge decells before doula lady gets on me for not being strong enough or doula-ed up enough to give birth to my four pound baby vaginally)

The next two were ENTIRELY elective and if I had it all to do over again they would all have been elective c sections. I recovered quickly and easily each time. My mom needed to have major reconstructive pelvic surgery after vaginally delivering four babies. I have avoided that!

If I had one wish for the women facing pregnancy/childbirth /young childhood rearing it would be to say that you can do your best, do what you want, and if you love your baby, take care of yourself and provide food and shelter and warmth and love that everything is going to be ok and all these incredibly stupid culture wars will be a distant memory. Never let any militant 'side' convince you to override your own best interests. [/quote]

It doesn't matter how the baby got here.  It doesn't matter. It's not a contest.  You're not winning. The only thing we're trying to do is keep as many moms and babies alive as possible  Childbirth is dangerous and painful.  Do what is best for you. [/quote]

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