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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]If you are so concerned about Larlo - although a lot of energy here has been about how the adult grandmother feels, but if you are sooo concerned about how this child feels the best thing you can do is to provide a loving and accepting environment for his whole family. You can only control how YOU behave. So if Larlo gets upset you don’t say “mommy and daddy wouldn’t let us give you a gift” you provide a distraction. Take him to pet the dog or show him a magic trick. He’s only 3. It will pass. As he gets older his parents will explain things to him and his expectations will be different. Maybe he will be resentful but that’s not your problem. This child is a member of your family and your job is to love him and his parents in spite of your fundamental differences. You teach him about generosity of spirit and unconditional love. [/quote]

Why is it wrong to be concerned about Larlo?[/quote]

Literally no one said it was wrong to be concerned about Larlo - the OP seemed more concerned about her mother than Larlo frankly. [/quote]

Op (me) is concerned for both.

Larlo deserves a Christmas gift with his family. It won’t hurt anything.

To the posters above who advised to distract Larlo during gift opening; that’s on his parents. They want larlo to live as they choose, they can deal with the ramifications of their choices. It’s their choice! They can deal. Honestly nothing is going to placate a child in this situation. [/quote]

Sure sounds like [i]someone[/i] can’t be placated. 
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Yup OP doesn't care about anything but being right and making sure that BIL and sister know this. I didn't know Jesus but I'm sure he'd try to make sure the kid was as happy as he could make him regardless of the parents but obviously that part of the teaching is lost on OP. Let the kid be sad so the parents can see how wrong they are (secretly hopes the kid is super sad). [/quote]

You don’t speak for me at all. I am dreadfully anxious about Larlo’s reaction at the Christmas celebration. So is everyone. We are all sad for Larlo. [/quote]

YOU are dreadfully anxious and sad (and so is "everyone"). Larlo will be fine, and if they're upset the parents will deal with it. [/quote]

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