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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I’m curious that no one here is interested in motive. All the fixation in this thread is on that “what” and the “how”, but no one is asking about the “why”. That’s not science. [/quote] I would bet anything he was being tormented at school for being poor, pudgy, and unathletic. Bullying is so freaking cruel and typically nobody at large high schools gives a damn.[/quote] This. Most school and workplace shootings don’t happen in a vacuum. These kids lash out in these cases because they’ve been teased, bullied and ostracized their whole lives, and they reach their breaking point and go supernova. Pearl Jam understood this in the song “Jeremy” 25 years ago “…… Clearly I remember Pickin' on the boy Seemed a harmless little f@@k But we unleashed the lion…. “ Bullying is the most evil, destructive thing kids can do. Because it creates Jeremy’s. And shame on all of you here who so casually offhandedly dismiss any discussion of motive. You are disgusting, and a bully. And your own kids are probably bullies as well. You see things like this and it scares you, because it makes you consider the things you did to other children when you were younger. Or what you suspect your own kids are doing to a classmate right now. You think about what would happen if one of their victims snaps. You don’t actually care about the victim - you just care about that victim lashing out. That’s why so many here are made so uncomfortable about any discussion of motive. And why you try to shutter any post about it. -a formerly bullied kid now an adult [/quote] Love to you PP. You are correct. [/quote] Agree completely. I was bullied as a kid; now an adult. The emotional scars heal slowly over a very long time, but they never go away completely. So glad that our schools finally have good programs in place to intervene and stop bullying (FFX anyway).[/quote] Most people have a reason for committing violence. Many of those who are in prisons now saw violence as kids and/or experienced that violence on them. Many of us were bullied as kids, yet we didn't get a gun and shoot people. That doesn't excuse the violence. So, in the end, it doesn't matter what his motives were. He murdered kids; parents knew he had disciplinary issues and still kept a gun in the house. [/quote]
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