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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]It’s telling that the OP won’t address her actual question, which was whether or not this would hurt her sister’s feelings. So what was your real purpose for starting this thread, OP? [/quote]

How have I not addressed it?  Are you asking me if I'd be hurt?  No, I wouldn't.  Are you asking me if I think my sister will be hurt?  Yes, I sort of assume she will, she can be pretty fragile.  So, I'm trying to gage whether those feelings are reasonable, and whether they are a reason to change my plans.  But I'm not going to change them by inviting this sister, or by hiding the trip from her.  I might change them by changing how I explain my choice, or I might change them by not inviting my youngest sister.  I have not yet decided.  [/quote]

Plenty of people said yes, they would be hurt, but that’s irrelevant. If you think your sister is a fragile, unreasonable person, then you’ve made up your mind. Do what you want. You have two other sisters on your side so what do you have to worry about? Fragile sister can get with the program or be sad and fragile on her own time. Nothing you need to trouble yourself with. [/quote]

Irrelevant to what.  I can't even tell what you're judging me for in this post.  For not inviting this sister?  For also considering the feelings of my other sister?  For asking the question?  [/quote]

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