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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Long story short, we are mid-40s. Wife is quite distant, intimacy has struggled for years. She has finally said it's just that she wants to be alone, she's spent two decades being tethered to the kids, putting her career on hold while mine soared, etc. She's ready to live for her. I asked her is she is leaving me, she said she is considering moving out. I know the obvious answer is "affair" and of course it could be but it doesn't feel like it. What's the future? Do I do the 180? Fight for her? It's hard to fight for someone who doesn't really want to be with you. Thanks, could use some real insight.[/quote] As someone who feels like your wife, the answer is to pave the way for her to soar. My husband could not live the life he’s living without me sacrificing mine. Because he doesn’t see it that way, I will definitely move out within the year. I don’t want to end the marriage, but I can’t continue living this way. [/quote]
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