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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote]What OP's DH did was lazy and careless. Those are accurate words to describe his actions.

There are mountains of research showing that women spend more time on childcare and housework than fathers and less time in leisure activities. I get that you just want to blame the women for this for not communicating effectively or whatever, but the rest of us respect ourselves enough to know we are not here to parent our husbands. It takes a lot of time to "communicate" to people that the way they were raised is not going to work in a modern household. In the meantime, you bet I am going to find humor and solidarity with other women who experience similar ridiculous behaviors from our husbands. Sorry (not sorry) you don't like that.[/quote]

What OP's DH did might have been lazy or careless. However, we have no idea whether he can be labeled as "lazy" or "careless." That you cannot understand the difference speaks volumes.

The fact that women spend more time on childcare has nothing to do with the fact that the OP showed deplorable taste when she labeled her DH as lazy and careless. Asking others to join in a sisterhood of husband-bashing shows equally poor taste.

Finally, the fact that you want to show "solidarity" with other women regarding how ridiculous you find your husbands' behaviors shows your true intent of belittling those you claim (or claimed at one time) to love.[/quote]

I can't imagine your spouse ever has anything negative to say about you. You sound like a delight. [/quote]

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