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[quote=Anonymous]"Not OP, but this strikes me as awfully judgmental. Having been on the other side of this, your "fix the marriage" comment seems ill-informed to me. It seems distressingly common, from what I have heard, for the lower-sex drive partner to raise any and all issues as pretexts to avoid addressing the issue of sex itself, and frustrated high-drive partners are often left in the position where they are trying to move heaven and earth to resolve other issues in the marriage as a prerequisite to addressing the sex issue another day, a day that somehow never seems to come. This can cause extreme frustration, which is what I hear in OP's words. "

Yes, the humiliation and devastation caused by long term rejection can cause extreme frustration."

NP here.  But that poster wasn't talking about a LD issue; s/he was suggesting that OP consider that the problem is the (emotional) state of his marriage, not sex drive or hormones.  Big difference.  I thought my sex drive was slowing down as I aged, but once I divorced I realized it was the unhappiness and stress of a bad marriage.  [/quote]

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