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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, if your DH were writing this entry, it would
most likely state: MY DW has strong opinions about everything big or small, so I have learned to defer to her and ask her opinion on even the smallest decisions because chances are—according to her—if I decide somethjng or make a choice, I’m doing it wrong or making the wrong choice.
But now she claims I am lazy and can’t make decisions and she is overwhelmed with this burden.
If I try to take things off her plate like taking our child to the doctor, she claims that this doesn’t help because I don’t take notes at the appointment the way she would. Or if I take in the task of giving out child the daily dose of required medication, she will micromanage to “make sure” that I am pouring the medication into the cup precisely the way she would do it.

She says she can’t trust me to do things and that I am lazy and stupid. And then
she wonders why I get nervous and anxious when she speaks to me this way. 
What should I do to make her happy?

……
And the answer would probably be “nothing. She is determined to be unhappy with you, OP”[/quote]
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He forgets to feed the kid
He forgets to tell the dr important information
He forgets the important information the dr tells him
He doesn't measure the medication that needs to be a precise dose

Yes, he is stupid at worst, and lazy at best -- or the other way around.

And he is spineless to not be able to talk to the DW about his concerns.[/quote]

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